Discover How Newlywed Brides Keep The Pre-Married Spark Alive And Avoid The Common Newlywed Struggles Of Boredom And Arguments With Their Unsympathetic Husbands That Can Lead To Ineffective Marriage Counseling And Expensive, Embarrassing Divorces.
Being a newlywed Bride is not always what it’s cracked up to be.
It seems like just yesterday you were picking out your dress. Your flowers. And your invitations.
Your big day was right around the corner.
The day that you were a princess.
Your friends and family were there. And everybody was happy to see you and your husband tying the knot.
Okay…maybe not everyone was happy (mother in-law?)…
But most everyone else was.
The day had arrived.
You and your husband would make a commitment to live “Happily Ever After.”
But time has passed since then and it’s no longer your wedding day. And you’re starting to wonder…
“Did I Make A Mistake?”
You find yourself arguing with your husband over stupid things. Things so small it’s almost ridiculous that they are even mentioned. Let alone argued over.
You find yourself bored a lot. More than you were pre-marriage.
The funny thing is – he sure doesn’t seem to be bored. At least not when he’s with his friends. But when he’s with you – things are – boooooorrrrriiiing.
This isn’t what you bargained for.
And it’s not something you should settle for.
It’s not like you are asking for much.
All you want is to exchange this unsympathetic jerk for the guy he was while you were dating.
…The man you fell in love with.
…The man you could talk to without getting in an argument.
You’ve thought about ending it with the dreaded “D” word.
But there are things that keep you from just walking away.
Maybe it’s kids.
Or the money you spent on the wedding.
Maybe the embarrassment of failing at marriage so soon.
And what your friends and family will say behind your back.
Or is it the extremely expensive costs of divorce that you aren’t sure you can afford?
Plus, if you argue a lot now…you know it’s going to be an absolute mess when you try to deal with all the paperwork and agreements of a divorce. Not to mention the huge financial burden that comes along with it. A process that would weaken even the strongest woman.
But why should common newlywed troubles lead to divorce? You aren’t asking for much.
You’re just asking to have the happy marriage that you thought you were getting into.
The marriage your beautiful wedding day should have turned into.
And you can still have that – if you are willing to give it some effort.
You can get that fun loving man you dated back.
He’s still in that cold body somewhere.
The man that cared about your feelings.
The man you were excited to start and grow a family with.
But how do you get it back?
Marriage counseling?
Self help books?
DVD or audio courses?
The answer is different than most troubled wives think.
Check out the graphic below showing divorce rates by age.
As you can see divorce rates are highest for women under 34 years old.
And many of those women are newlyweds just like you.
50% OF MARRIAGES FAIL
That may be true…
But let’s look at that from a different angle…
…If 50% of marriages end in divorce or fail…
… Then that means 50% succeed.
And since you haven’t been in your marriage for 15+ years like others having issues.
It’s easier for you to fix what’s wrong in your marriage before it’s too late.
I was chatting with Amy Waterman the author of a highly successful online program that has helped thousands of troubled couples save their marriages.
Amy told me that from the thousands of couples she has been able to help she learned that…
How many times have you gotten into an argument with your husband and one of you became so enraged that you just stormed out of the room – or even left the house all together?
The silent treatment lasting for hours…or even days?
Now what if you both accepted that you are going to have arguments?
But when you do, you are able to raise issues and deal with them in a way that takes into account the feelings of both you and your husband
…and delivers an outcome that avoids the stress, pain, and emotional trauma of marital failure.
It’s possible…
But as I said before you have to know the proper techniques.
…And be willing to work at it.
Amy is an expert in this field. And she knows that it’s often not a lack of passion or commitment in a relationships. But an inability to know what to do and where to start saving a marriage.
Most new couples immediately think marriage counseling is the answer.
But there are a few problems when going the counseling route.
Your husband is probably likely to push back and show heavy resistance to attending counseling. He’ll probably think it’s un-manly (and how dare you challenge his manhood).
Or he’ll think the counselor is definitely going to side with you.
And even if you do get him to counseling…
…Your marital problems – although not as bad as couples who have been together longer – still can not be resolved in one session.
And each session with a good Marriage counselor can cost you several hundred dollars.
Just a handful of sessions is going to push you past the $1000 mark.
And with counseling there is no guarantee that the counselor will be able to resolve your issues.
Worse case scenario, you run up an expensive counseling bill, that didn’t resolve any issues between you and your husband. It made them worse.
Then follow that up with an expensive divorce that will cost thousands, if not tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees!
When you start adding up the cost of a divorce – you better be damn sure that this is a relationship that you want to end…because it will drain you not only emotionally, but financially as well.
So let’s get to the alternative.
And it really boils down to building communication skills that successful newlyweds use everyday to still argue like normal people (that’s unavoidable) but do it in a way that leads to conversation and understanding by both parties involved.
I asked Amy if I could share some of the tips she’s used to help save thousands of newlywed couples like you and she agreed.
These tips alone can save you thousands of dollars you might have spent on counseling – or worse divorce.
You love your husband. And he loves you.
Don’t you owe it to yourself to at least give Amy’s advice a chance? It’s already worked for thousands – and I’m sure many of them were in way worse situations than you.
To Get Access To Amy’s Free course that has been downloaded by over 25,000 people click the link below that Amy has generously allowed me to share with you.
Click Here To Get Amy’s Course
Remember it’s not uncommon for newlyweds to have problems. Once you see the cost of marriage counselors and divorce you’ll realize that divorce is not always the easiest way out of a situation that can be saved with a little work.
If you’re ready to make it work. Amy is ready to help.
